You are not fat till being it starts killing you. You are not fat till the adipose starts choking your existence and the cholesterol starts clogging your blood supply.
How do you differentiate between fat and thin? The basic answer goes like this: You are thin because your collar bones peep out of your shirt or because you've got a mere rib cage for an abdomen.
And if this is the definition of being "ideal", I refuse to be a part of the bandwagon.
The world's filled with people suffering from anorexia and bulimia. Apart from genetics, one of the most important reasons behind people suffering from such issues, is low self confidence. And who is responsible for this? The people around them. One doesn't have to be skinny to sport a dress. So what if the curves show through a tight fitted LBD? Does that make you inhuman? You don't have to have worked out abs to don a crop top. There's a reason why companies manufacture larger sizes. If ALL people weren't meant to wear them, they wouldn't have been made in the first place!
People will say. They'll talk. Not just behind your back but on your face. The best way to deal with that? Be confident. Are you dying because you happen to have a few extra pounds? Is it making you less courageous, less smart, less beautiful from within? If the answer to these questions is "No", then don't pay heed to what anyone says. You're just fine the way you are. You don't have to change as long as you're healthy. If others have a problem, let them. You can't change someone's opinion. You can't change what people think, or how poorly they do.
It's your life in the end and you only have to be HAPPY.
